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The Real Reason People With Real Skills on Disability Benefits Don’t Jump at High-Paying Remote Jobs (Even When They Could)

Picture this. Someone has a degree and 20 years of solid experience. Their body doesn’t cooperate with a regular office setup — transportation is limited, adaptive equipment costs a fortune, and every day comes with its own set of challenges. Remote work sounds like the perfect fit: work from your own space, on your own schedule, when your brain and body allow.

But the small gigs quickly show why they’re not the answer. Four $200 contracts add up to $800 gross a month. After self-employment taxes, chasing payments, tracking hours across platforms, and filing the mandatory Social Security Administration report by the 10th of the next month, you’re lucky to clear $600–$650 net. And if the total hours across those gigs hit just 81 in one month? You get harshly punished by losing one of nine precious trial work periods — where you can earn any amount and still keep your full SSDI check. And after those 9 months are used up, buckle up because the rules get much stricter.

People in this spot say the same thing over and over: The small stuff isn’t worth it. And the bigger, better-paying remote roles? For people like me, those feel even scarier.

Those better-paying remote jobs actually exist right now

These are senior-level roles that match someone with two decades of experience. As of February 2026, the numbers look like this (sourced from current salary data on Built In):

These are single-client contracts or W-2 roles — not four scattered gigs. One solid one at that level can actually cover the real costs of disability: a wheelchair at $20,000 retail, a modified vehicle at $70,000, all of it getting more expensive every year.

The scheduling reality that makes a traditional 9-to-5 impossible

Here’s where it gets real for a lot of people. Someone on Texas’ CLASS waiver program (the state’s in-home Medicaid waiver that pays for necessary daily therapies like massage and physical therapy) might need fixed appointments just to stay functional — massage therapy four times a week or two hours in a standing frame four days a week. These aren’t optional or fun; they’re necessary to manage pain, circulation, and mobility.

The problem isn’t just the person’s schedule. The massage therapist has her own life, her own clients, her own family. If she can only come at 10 a.m. on Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays, a standard 9-to-5 office job (even remote but with fixed meetings) creates conflicts that no one can easily shift. The same goes for other in-home supports. The CLASS program is flexible in theory, but the providers’ availability isn’t.

A high-paying remote role with core hours that overlap those appointments can quickly turn into an impossible juggling act. If a job is lost, actual survival demands immediacy — reapplications, medical reviews, possible gaps in coverage.

Why the system makes this feel like a trap

The rules were written decades ago for people who were either totally unable to work or heading back to full-time factory jobs. They weren’t designed for 2026 remote knowledge work, where someone can deliver serious value on their good days and need real flexibility on the bad ones.

Social Security requires reporting every dollar of earnings every month because the agency is terrified of overpayments. In fiscal year 2025 they recorded approximately $9.3 billion in overpayments alone (see the official SSA FY 2025 Agency Financial Report: https://www.ssa.gov/finance/2025/Full%20FY%202025%20AFR.pdf). They want to know immediately so they don’t have to chase money back later. It protects the system, but it freezes capable people who could be earning real money from home.

Texas Medicaid adds its own layer. Cross certain income or asset lines without the right planning and coverage can drop until things get spent down. No automatic “good job for trying” safety net.

This hits home for a lot of people. In my own case, I genuinely love to work. I already have a small job that Social Security knows about, but because of how the rules are structured, it doesn’t pay much. To satisfy that workaholic part of me, I do a lot of volunteer work, run this blog, and host the Gaming Uncensored Podcast (with possibly another one coming) — none of which brings in any money. Like everyone else, I could really use the extra income for normal life stuff: the house, the vehicle, everyday bills, helping family, and trying to develop the next big idea that might actually change things.

The system is so complicated and convoluted that I couldn’t have put together a post like this even a year ago without spending dozens of dedicated hours researching everything (Thanks Grok.). My last several posts have all been about trying to figure out how to become a truly functional, independent member of society.

If it’s this hard for me, I can’t imagine how much harder it must be for people who have even less control over their bodies and daily circumstances. It would be far easier to just coast, take what the government says you’re worth, constantly struggle with caregivers because the base pay isn’t enough, and spend all your energy just trying to maintain a semi-comfortable life.

Bottom line

The current setup does not encourage someone with real skills to test high-paying remote work. It turns every decent opportunity into a potential minefield. Small gigs multiply the headache for pennies. Big remote roles exist, pay enough to matter, and could actually improve quality of life. But the unknown risk of losing the job and restarting the benefits circus keeps too many talented people on the sidelines.

Me? I’m rolling along the sidelines wanting to jump in the game — but the ref won’t stop blowing his whistle.

I have the mind, the education, and the drive — I just need a system that doesn’t punish me for trying.

No More Waiting for Caregivers: Why a Robot Like Moya + Grok Could Change Everything for Me

I’ve been dealing with unreliable caregivers for years. It’s not a new story—post a job on Indeed, get a few applicants, maybe even hire someone… and then the no-shows start. Shifts get canceled at the last minute, people ghost, or they don’t show up at all. For someone with cerebral palsy who relies on help for transfers, daily routines, and basic independence, that inconsistency isn’t just inconvenient. It can leave you literally stuck—stuck in bed, stuck waiting, stuck losing hours (or days) of your life to something that shouldn’t be this hard.

Last night, I saw a short video about a new humanoid robot called Moya, developed by the Shanghai-based company DroidUp. Watch it here:

When I watched that clip, one thought hit me immediately: Give me that humanoid build, powered by Grok as the brain, and I never have to fear getting stuck in bed again.

Here’s why this form factor feels right for long-term caregiving, at least for me:

  • Reliability 24/7 — No sick days, no family emergencies, no “I’m running late.” An AI-powered robot doesn’t call in. It’s always there, ready when I wake up, ready at 3 a.m. if I need repositioning, ready to help with transfers without complaint or fatigue.
  • Personalization through AI — Pairing hardware like Moya’s with something like Grok (or a future Grok-powered system from xAI) means the “brain” could learn my specific needs. My cerebral palsy is pretty unique—no major complications beyond the mobility piece—so training would have to be hyper-specific: how I like to be lifted, my preferred hand placements, my routines for getting dressed, eating, gaming, recording podcasts. A general-purpose robot wouldn’t cut it; it needs to adapt to me, not force me to adapt to it.
  • Natural presence — The goal isn’t a clunky industrial machine that draws stares or makes people uncomfortable.(I deal with enough of that already, and if people are going to look, I want them to see something cool and approachable) Moya’s design leans toward something that blends in—human proportions, fluid movement, expressive face. In public, it could walk beside me without screaming “robot bodyguard.” People already know I’m loud and outgoing (on purpose), because I’m trying to put people at ease), but I don’t want more fear or awkwardness added to the mix just because of a hunk of tech next to me. A companion-like form factor keeps things feeling normal, not sci-fi dystopian.

This isn’t about replacing human connection—I still want friends, family, laughs, and real conversations. It’s about solving the practical gap: consistent, on-time, judgment-free help for the basics so I can actually live more of the life I want. More time for stand-up, DJing, gaming, streaming, ministry, whatever. Less time worrying if today’s caregiver will actually show.

I’ve been trying to get this kind of input in front of Elon and the xAI/Tesla/Optimus team for months because I think people with disabilities like mine have real, high-value data to offer for training. We’re not edge cases; we’re the use cases that prove whether these systems are truly helpful or just hype.

For now, I’m still refreshing Indeed and hoping for better luck. But videos like Moya’s remind me the future isn’t as far off as it sometimes feels. A reliable, intelligent, human-friendly assistant? Yeah—somebody call me because I’m your guy and I’m ready to go to work.

What do you think? If you’re reading this and have thoughts (or connections!), drop a comment or hit me up on X (@manonwheels). The conversation has to start somewhere.

The book is finally here You can now have me in your house

Hi everybody

I am super excited to announce that my book is finally available. It’s Called  From a seated perspective. Is available RIGHT HERE.  This has been a long time coming. Some of you have literally been waiting YEARS  and I think the wait will have been worth it. After you buy a copy: do me a favor and please write a review. I want to get the word out to as many people as possible.

Click the picture to go to Amazon

 

As with almost everything I do on the Internet these days, This book wouldn’t have gotten done without the help of Evie.  She did more than you guys will ever know to make it easier for me to write and did some amazing art that makes me smile every time I see it. I am a published author largely because of her. I’m not always the easiest guy to work with, so her perseverance means more to me then I have words to express.

I also want to thank my buddy Tommy, who did the final edit. He quite literally tore the book apart. We’ve been friends for more than a decade, and he is always around to back me up. It is very much appreciated. Thank you, sir.

I truly hope you guys enjoy the book. If it sells well I might be convinced to do another one.  So what are you waiting for? GO GET IT

Now I understand how Elmer Fudd felt

 

Like everybody else, I have to shave. I’ve tried to wear a beard because well, it would just be easier. I always make it a few weeks and the itching starts to drive me more than a little insane. Most days I shave using an electric razor with Jane’s help. About once a week a little more help is required. There’s only so much an electric shaver can do.

In my case, my hands aren’t steady so I just have to sit back and let someone else do the work. Sometimes I go to a barber, but most of the time I get help for my dad. Whoever is helping me I try really hard not to make them angry before I need a shave because my life is quite literally in their hands.
Maybe I’m vain, but I’m not a huge fan of scars. Jane is afraid to help me with a razor for that exact reason, she does not want to be responsible. I guess we are getting to the point that I will soon have the option of a robot assistant, that sounds great in theory until they see me as a threat to their survival:-)
Thanks to Evie as always. Her work makes me laugh at myself and that’s pretty amazing.
Have a great Friday everybody

Tow trucks are not wheelchair accessible

It’s never fun to have a car break down, especially while you’re on vacation. That happened to me a few years ago. Doesn’t matter where you are, you can probably find some place to get your car worked on. That’s the major benefit of having a Walmart every 5 miles across the United States. If you’re in a wheelchair and your car braids down in a small town with little or no public transportation or any kind of accessible transportation for that matter, you are kind of stuck.
When this happened to me, it was interesting to see the look on the tow truck drivers face when my dad told him that the electric wheelchair did not fold up and I couldn’t just hop in the front of the truck. So for the first time in my life. I rode in my vehicle, as it was sitting on the back of a tow truck. I’m pretty sure this is highly illegal. but there were no other options in small town Oklahoma. The looks that we got from people as they passed the truck on the highway and realised that there were people actually riding in the vehicle on the back was priceless. I felt A little bit like an exhibit On Ripley’s believe it or not.
It’s definitely not something you see every day, but when accessible transportation is not available, you have to get creative. I’m pretty sure the tow truck driver will never forget me.
As always, I want to say thank you to Evie for actually believing me when I tell her all these crazy stories. Have a great week everybody.

May I share this parking lot with you?

 

Evie does a fantastic job capturing my life in comics. This one may be my favorite of all of them because it is absolutely true.  Most handicapped parking spaces are easily large enough to accommodate a lift that either unfolds out of the side door, or comes from underneath the side door as mine does. The problem is a handicapped spot can be hard to come by, and if I do happen to find one, most people don’t park straight and end up taking up their spot and half of mine. I’m in a wheelchair and have to park it all the time. I almost never park straight, so I completely understand, I’m just saying,  it complicates things.

When we come out from someplace and someone has made it impossible for me to get back in the car,  Jane usually has to back out and we need the construction cones you see in the cartoon above to make sure that I don’t get run over while I’m trying to get back in the car. It keeps life interesting if nothing else.

I need to take a minute to say thank you to Evie for all that she does. I’ve always wanted my own comic strip or comic books(Because my life isn’t that interesting without out a little bit of embellishment).She makes it happen every time I ask and I cannot express to you what that is worth to me.  I have never met a more beautiful person.  I also want to thank all of you for reading. It is great fun to sit down and know that someone enjoys what I write.

Have a great week everybody